How to Step Into Your Potential (Part 1)

How to Step Into Your Potential (Part 1)

Hope you had a love-filled Valentine’s Day even if you were on your own! Remember, Love is always here… because you are here.

So how can you deepen into that ever-abiding love?

One way is to understand how your ego takes you away from experiencing that love which is your true and essential nature.

This is why I wanted to devote the next few weeks to exploring the ways we can consciously and unconsciously get taken out. Specifically, by diving into the seven (I call them veils) of the ego, that Meggan Watterson outlines in her book, Mary Magdalene Revealed.

What is the Nous and How to Access It

A few years ago, I received Meggan Watterson’s book, Mary Magdalene Revealed as a holiday gift and devoured it. If you happened to glance at my copy, you’d see countless paragraphs underlined, asterisked, multiple pages dog eared. That’s how much I loved it.

Recently, I picked it up again.

Full disclosure- I’m really a fiction girl. There are few non-fiction books I’ve completely read cover to cover, so to return to one and read it AGAIN is quite unusual.

But Watterson’s book is all about connecting to the heart, to the divine love at the center of us. And it feels achingly timely to deepen into her teachings and practices.

One of the concepts she explores in this book, is the Greek word, nous. If you speak French or ever studied it, you know that word translates as we. Watterson explains that the word is difficult to define but in Greek, it means, “the eye of the heart.” In other words, “it’s the vision, or perception of the soul.”

Sound interesting?

She goes on to explain, “the concept of mind in Greek includes the heart; it was never separated from it…the heart according to the Near Eastern wisdom traditions, is an organ of spiritual perception. Merging with the nous, becoming conscious of it within the heart, and seeing with its vision, this is the goal of the process of inner transformation…” (p.93-94)

Later on page 94, she actually shares how we can do this.

She prefaces it by writing:

“I think this is how we pray, how we meditate like Mary Magdalene. We return to love within us, within the heart, quietly, discreetly, and we don’t ask for any reward or external affirmation in exchange for doing the work. The return to love is the treasure itself… Instead of reacting with the ego, we take a moment and respond differently.”

She offers this quick breathing exercise. I have paraphrased it below.

3 Breath Practice:

Take a deep breath and invite your awareness to descend into the heart space, the space at the center of your chest.

Your second breath is to connect to this space – the nous- the gateway to your soul.

With your third breath, you return to the moment and to whatever is happening, bringing that love with you. Ask love to show you the way and lead you as your guide.

The invitation with this is to do it at any time, in any situation. It is that simple and quick. Think about it as a reset, or a way to get out of reaction, fear, or thinking, and anchor back into the heart. Not from a nice, touchy/feely way, but from the insight, intelligence and depth that is your inner wisdom.

Watterson also shares in this book what she calls the seven powers of the ego. These are seven aspects that keep us from connecting to that deep love at the center of us. Not next week -because I have a special Valentine treat for you- but beginning the week after that, I’m going to outline and explain them all in detail.

Stay tuned!



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4 Ways to Actively Co-Create Your Life

4 Ways to Actively Co-Create Your Life

Lately I’ve been doing some reflecting. It naturally occurred as a follow up from all the visioning we’ve been doing lately.

The inventory I’ve been conducting is about examining my decisions more closely and looking at my underlying motivations.

In other words, did I make a significant decision because I was adhering to a set of unconscious rules passed down from family or society? Or because it was truly something I felt called to do for my own self growth? Take a moment to look back at your life and ask yourself the same questions.

It turns out we make loads of decisions based on things like: pleasing others, fulfilling expectations, because it’s the "right" thing to do, or it’s what we’re “supposed” to do.

One Word to Rule Your Year

One Word to Rule Your Year

Happy New Year!

Feeling ready for 2026?

It’s still pretty new which is why I like to incorporate some anchoring practices as a way to create clarity going forward as well as to feel more grounded into the year.

So, for the next few weeks, as I do EVERY year 😉 I’ll post my personal faves. Things I do each year to set me up for the BEST possible year. These practices will assist you to get clear and dream into your future, so you can move with confidence and ease into the days and months ahead.

10 Ways to Open and Receive More of What You Want

10 Ways to Open and Receive More of What You Want

As we move into the holiday season and a time of gift giving, it’s also the ideal time to explore what it means to receive and how to do this with more intentionality.

With that in mind, I’m going to dive deeply into the concept of receiving and how- especially for those of us (givers) for whom that is difficult- we can allow ourselves to experience even more of it!

If you’re wondering why this is important, let me clarify.

In truth, receiving IS the entire game. What I mean is that God/the universe/universal mind/conscious awareness- or however you think about higher self/spirit is ALWAYS trying to give us more love, goodness, support and help.

Embodying Well-Being Part IV

Embodying Well-Being Part IV

We are now at the last pillar of well-being which is defined as purpose.

Purpose has had a resurgence of interest in the past few years, and I confess to have done my fair share of contemplation with it!

Most inquiries around purpose seem to focus on action, as in what you do, how you do it and then show up in the world. But underneath that is another layer, isn’t there? It’s the motivation behind the action.

Experiencing Well-Being Part III

Experiencing Well-Being Part III

We’re already at the 3rd pillar of well-being!

As a quick review, the first two are:

  1. Awareness

Meaning, the ability to be more present, tuned into your here and now as well as to your mind chatter.

Cultivating Well-Being Part II

Cultivating Well-Being Part II

How is your practice of awareness coming along?

Another way to think about awareness, is mindfulness. If you google that word alone, you’ll find loads of practices (in addition to the pause one I gave you) to support you in cultivating more awareness.

Today we’re exploring the 2nd pillar of well-being that Dr Richard Davidson identified with his neuroscience research.

Connection

Cultivating Well-Being Part I

Cultivating Well-Being Part I

Have you heard of a neuroscientist named Richard Davidson?

He’s been doing research on the brain specifically related to mindfulness, meditation and well- being for decades. And his research is fascinating!

One of his key findings is around the idea of well-being. Through extensive study, trials and research, he has identified what he calls 4 pillars of well-being.

The really exciting news is that these so-called pillars aren’t inherent qualities, or even simply acquired knowledge. They are qualities that each and every one of us can cultivate and apply every day of our lives!

The Essential Truth of Why You Need a Spiritual Practice Right Now

The Essential Truth of Why You Need a Spiritual Practice Right Now

I don’t need to tell you that the world situation is, to quote Tom Robbins, “desperate as usual.”

In truth, it feels even worse than usual as systems and structures collapse all around us.

Not to be morbid…but the rate of change is too fast! None of us can keep up, not with technology, with AI, with the news cycle, none of it.

Our nervous systems are simply unequipped to manage this level of change/ chaos/however you define it.

Part of why the rate of change continues to increase, is because we’re in what mystics are calling a “celestial speedup.”