Sometimes when I find myself dragging, or avoiding taking action, I remind myself of this quote: “Procrastinate Tomorrow.”
It often gets me going.
How about you?
Is there a technique you use to help?
SOOO glad that last email was helpful to you. 🙏🏼
I’m gonna keep going!
This week, let’s focus on freedom from uncertainty or maybe a better phrase is managing uncertainty.
I mean, let’s be honest. This is a MAJOR challenge for all of us.
When we face uncertainty, it can often cause doubt, fear, insecurity, unworthiness… and the list goes on.
And yet, life is change. Life is constant change. We see it everywhere. Leaves sprout in the spring, green in the summer, yellow in the autumn, turn brown and fall off in the winter.
We live amidst cyclical change that occurs naturally and it impacts us as well. Yet change can also feel difficult to manage. Especially when it’s unexpected or unwarranted.
So here are a few tips to help you navigate this landscape.
I’m on a roll right now, thinking about freedom, and thought that maybe for the rest of this month we could explore ways to feel more free.
The first one that came up for me (how about you?) is FEAR.
If you’re familiar with the enneagram, you’ll know that at point 6 (which is me 😊), this is our basic challenge.
In truth, it’s all of our basic challenge, maybe the flavor of it differs, yes? Because we ALL experience fear. So, the question then is, what do we do when it arises?
We’ve spent all of June basking in the light – the light of the solstice, the light within us, the light that is our true inheritance. 🌅
One of the questions I often get asked related to this, is how can I experience more of that light within me?
In previous weeks, we explored the idea of having blocks to the awareness of love’s presence. We also examined what some of those particular blocks might be, depending on our personalities. (Enneagram)
As we continue to remove these, the next step is experiencing the light in ourselves.
It’s true, we ALL suffer from feeling like there’s something missing, or we aren’t good enough, or that we’re lacking in some way…
Certainly, the human part of us can fall into this kind of thinking. Especially when we feel anxious or fearful.
I think it’s helpful to recognize that we encounter feelings of lack or not enough-ness when we either feel separate from the one-ness and disconnected from the universe, OR we identify and believe we are our self image / personality which comes with, according to Robert Holden’s new book on the Enneagram, a core sense of deficiency.
Having fun connecting with the Divine Feminine? Doesn’t it feel amazing?
Here’s another way to connect to that essence.
It’s our last mothering tool.
Can you guess what it is?
Yes, it’s connecting to the great goddess on which we live and get ALL of our physical sustenance and nourishment, Mother Earth.
During the Covid lockdown, I did a wonderful initiation into seeing the earth as Tara- Tara Gaia. And yet, there are countless first nations who have and continue to honor the earth as our sacred mother.
Do you have a go-to strategy when you find it hard to concentrate and your brain feels fuzzy?
Or when you can’t seem to figure out what to do next, or what direction to move towards?
When I’m in that place, it sometimes feels like I’m spinning in circles, directionless, blind to possibility.
However, when I REMEMBER to use this tool (!), a breathing exercise, it can really make a difference.
Why?
Since the end of October, I’ve been struggling with aftereffects from Covid-19 and today I felt guided to share my healing journey with you.
Sometime in mid-October, I contracted Covid. As with many of us, I wasn’t exactly sure how I got it. I was traveling overseas and didn’t confirm I was positive until I returned home! After quarantining for ten days, and finally testing negative, I was ready to move on with my life!
Ha Ha.
This was my first encounter with a long-term illness, something you may live with or have experienced at some point in your life. To you, I offer my deepest condolences. You are indeed a brave warrior.
Each time I’d think I was finally better and could get BACK to my life, I’d have some kind of relapse. Mostly with a blanketing sense of fatigue that would descend like a band across my eyes. That’s when I knew I couldn’t keep going.
This went on for weeks that turned into months.
I have this mp3 track of Louise Hay called 101 Power Thoughts for Life. At the beginning of it she says, “the thoughts we think and the words we speak are constantly shaping our world and our experiences. Many of us are in an old habit of negative thinking and do not realize the damage we have inflicted upon ourselves. However, we are never stuck because we can always change our thinking.”
Sometimes it’s fun to sprinkle in a little astrology… why? Because those GIANT orbs in the sky actually affect us here on earth.
January thus far may have had its fits and starts, but good news is a foot! Beginning on January 28th when Uranus ends its retrograde, there will be NO major planets backspinning from now until April 1st!!!!
In this time of giving, I’m reminded of a lesson from A Course In Miracles, “to give and to receive are one in truth.”
Initially, this can seem like an impossible statement, because if I have a sweater and I give it to you, then I no longer have that sweater, right?
Right!
But what if, on an energetic level, giving and receiving were the same thing?
For a number of years now, I’ve had this connection to the White Goddess. I first identified her as White Tara, Buddhist goddess of healing and compassion. But on my recent trip to Vietnam, I learned of a new white goddess, Quan Am. The Vietnamese version of Kwan Yin, the Boddhisattva of compassion
If you are unfamiliar with the Sanskrit term, bodhisattva, or bo tat in Vietnamese, it refers to a Buddhist concept of devoting your life to easing the suffering of others. A Boddhisattva vows to help release all sentient beings from suffering before being truly liberated.
This entire month, I’ve been kinda obsessed with the idea of the veil. Meaning the veil between worlds, or the veil that hides the truth from us.
In Hinduism, the goddess Kali is known to rip this veil from our eyes, to help us see the truth. Another way of thinking about it is that the goddess Maya is cloaked in the veil of illusion, which, in truth is as gauzy as a wispy cloud.
While I appreciate the imagery of both of these, the visual that has always, always, always speaks to me is the mists of Avalon. There the priestess stands in the prow of her boat and parts the mists, thus allowing her to enter the island of Avalon. Whereas, the others who are incapable of this feat wander forever lost in the gloam.
I was having a conversation the other day about how there are 2 types of people: YES people and NO people.
I realize this sounds incredibly generalizing, but hear me out.
Think about yourself. When you’re asked to attend something or hear about a new idea, what’s your initial response?
Is it a resounding and quick, YES!
Or a NO?
Responding like this is automatic. There may be judgment around one way being better than the other, but I don’t think that’s true. in essence, it’s simply a way we’re oriented towards the world.
You know when someone shares a technique or exercise they do with you, and as soon as you hear it, your brain says YES!
That happened to me the other day. A woman shared something that a coach she had years ago told her to do. It goes like this:
I was really struck with this notion, of envisioning trust blanketing everything and everyone, as opposed to feeling guarded or on alert.